Today I will be discussing about relationships, especially pertaining to teens nowadays.
Which each year we see the increased number of teens being engaged in boy-girl relationships, while the age of which these teens engage boy-girl relationships at start decreasing too.
Firstly, it is very important to understand what a relationship really is. However it is difficult to clarify what a relationship really is, and even harder it will be to evaluate purpose. There are many reasons to relationships- sheer loneliness, peer pressure and interest in other party. Out of these three stated examples, I guess "interest in other party" would be the most suitable and logical reason to engage in boy-girl relationships. However what the couple is looking at in the future is what really differs. In my opinion, what a couple should be looking at is marriage and spending a lifelong time together. However this is unfortunately not the case in many couples nowadays.
Logically thinking about it, why be in a relationship if you ultimately do not end up with marriage? It is plainly wasting time. If an individual cannot support, does not want to, and doesn't plan for marriage and lifelong time together with the other party, there is really no much point in a relationship itself. Relationships require time and effort to be invested into it. If you don't even know what you are working towards, all these time and effort should be well spent on something else.
Hence, what an individual should really consider his purpose of a relationship. He must also be ready. However such things are highly ambiguous and there is really no definite answer to it. But logically thinking, this is a sensible path to follow.
The implications of not observing this "test" might result in neglecting of studies and work, affecting social life of both parties. Wastage of time is also very important.
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